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Silk
Saris is a collection of essays, all of which explore some
aspect of young, second generation south-asian women who,
like the writer herself, are "caught - not between
two cultures, but between omissions and fragments [of themselves]".
The
book is especially noteworthy, not because it captures the
essence of two extreme ends of a spectrum: from the "traditional
(south asian culture)" on one end to the "modern
(Canadian)" on the other, but because it so beautifully
brings to light all that is in-between. It's easy to talk
about what is black or white and Handa deserves credit for
giving colour and vibrancy to what is otherwise a grey area.
Silk
Saris is bold and gutsy book. It exposes the duality that
most south-asian girls in North America live with. It documents
what it is like for south-asian girls in Canada to 'constantly
live in a generational space in which there is constant
switching, lying and hiding of truths, experience of shame,
and the weight of upholding a certain image in a hostile
environment". As Handa describes, the book is about
hanging out the collective south-asian "dirty laundry".
Dr.
Handa's experiences and conclusions result from a series
of interviews and painstaking research which includes case-studies
all of which is adeptly documented throughout the book (The
book has over 200 footnotes and a bibliography that extends
over 10 pages!!!). I would not be surprised if this book
is actually the thesis for which the writer may have received
her doctorate (perhaps in sociology?). This is not someone
who woke up one day and decided to publish a diary of her
experiences in Canada.
Indeed,
Silk Saris is more than a personal journal. It has forensic
value and is a well researched, richly detailed and yet
a lucidly written book. Unlike most books of this genre,
Silk Saris has an uplifting tone to it. Most south-asians
who read it, irrespective, of their gender will find stories,
incidents and behaviour documented in the book that they
can readily identify with. My personal favourite is, what
Dr. Handa calls, the "Uncle/Auntie phenomenon".
I have exhibited that exact same behaviour so many times
myself and Dr. Handa touches the precise nerve when she
explains why young south-asian girls exhibit certain behaviours
around other south-asian elders - even ones who are strangers
to them.
Silk
Saris will leave you with answers. Answers to questions
that may not even have occurred to you to ask
In my
opinion, Silk Saris will hold its place as a valuable reference
tool among academics and will strike a personal chord among
many generations of second-generation south-asian women.
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